Circumstances Don’t Cause Feelings For over a decade, I thought my feelings about my business just happened.They felt inevitable, given the circumstances. After all: Customers cancelled ordersEmployees made mistakesSoftware wouldn’t workDeliverables were lateProspects didn’t signNumbers were down So of course I felt:OverwhelmedFrustratedStressedIrritatedAnxiousTired But the circumstances weren’t causing my feelings.My thoughts about the circumstances caused my